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高中高一下册七选五英语质量提高试题Itcanbepainfulwhenyoufeellikeyourparentsaretreatingyoursiblings(兄弟姐妹)betterthanyou.Ifyoufeelreallysadaboutthis,thefollowingstepscanhelpyouimprovethesituation.____1____Sincewe’reallunique,nobodyrelatestoanytwopeopleinexactlythesameway.Sometimesaparentmightappeartofavoryouinsomesituationsandfavorasiblinginothers.Noparentcanbeperfect,buttheyshoulddotheirbesttobefair.It’snormalforparentstotreateachchildlittledifferently,becauseeachkidmightbenefitfromaslightlydifferentapproach.Trytellingyourparentshowyoufeel.Yourgoalistocommunicateyourfeelingsdirectlywithoutbeingrude.____2____Forexample,saying“Ifeelignored”isbetterthansaying“you’reignoringme.”Youcanalsosay,“Ifeelleftoutlately.SometimesIfeellikeyou'resobusytakingcareofthebabythatyoudon’thaveenoughtimeforme.”Askforwhatyou'dliketohappen.____3____Thisletsthemknowhowtheycantrytofixtheproblem.Presentanideathatcouldhelp.Youcansay,“CouldyoupleasetrytoshowuptomoreofmygamessothatI'llfeelsohappyknowingyou’retheretocheermeon.”Stepawayifthingsgetheated.Maybeyouoryourparentswillgetangry.It’shardtohaveausefulconversationifoneorbothpeoplearetooangrytothinkstraight.Ifyouseethishappening,takeabreak.Dosomedeepbreathingandstepaway.____4____Rememberthatyourparentshavetomakethedecisiontochange.Sometimestalkingaboutyourfeelingsisenoughforthemtochangetheirbehavior.____5____Thistypicallyisn’tyourfault(错误).Thewaytheyreacttoanhonestconversationsayshowgoodtheyareatparenting,nothowgoodyouareatbeingtheirchild.Youcan’tchangeotherpeople.Youcanonlycontrolyourownbehavior.A．Othertimesitisn't.B．Use“I”languageinsteadof“you”language.C．Keepinmindthateveryrelationshipisdifferent.D．Rememberthatyoucanalwaystryagainanotherday.E．Understandthesituationbytalkingwithyoursiblings．F．Tellyourparentswhatwouldhelpyoufeelclosertothem.G．Youmayfeelbetterifyouhaveanotherconversationimmediately.HowtoHaveBetterCommunicationwithChildrenCommunicationworkslikeabee.Itcanproducehoneyorsting（刺痛）.It'strue.____6____Tobebetterparents,weneedtousethetooltodevelopbettercom