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nlp前提假设（NLPpremisehypothesis） One,notwopeoplearethesame(Notwopersonsarethesame.) 1.notwopersonallifeexperiencewillbeexactlythesame, sonotwopersonalbeliefs,valuesandrulessystemwillbethe same. 2.sonotwopeoplecanagreeabsolutelyonthesamething. 3.sonotwopeoplewillreacttothesamethingthesame. 4.sonotwopeople'sattitudesandbehaviorpatternswillbe exactlythesame. 5.therefore,whathappenstoapersoncannotbeassumedthat itwillhappentoanotherperson. Thedifferencebetween6.peoplemakestheworldwonderfuland valuable. 7.respectotherpeople'sdifferences,otherswillrespect theirownuniqueplace. 8.eachperson'sbeliefs,valuesandrulessystemisconstantly evolving,sonooneisthesameintwominutes. 9.twoperson'sbeliefs,valuesandrulesarenotthesame,does notnecessarilymaketwopeopleunabletocommunicateornot developgoodrelations. 10.giveothersthespacethatistorespectotherpeople's beliefs,valuesandrules,havegoodcommunicationand relationshipto. 11.similarly,itisnormalforyoutodisagreewithothers. 12.whentorespectotherpeople'sbeliefs,valuesandrules atthesametime,wealsohavetherighttoaskotherstorespect theirbeliefs,valuesandrules. Two,apersoncannotcontrolanotherperson(Onepersoncannot changeanotherperson.) 1.,onecannotchangeanotherperson,apersoncanonlychange himself. 2.eachperson'sbeliefs,values,rulesofsystemonlyvalid, shouldnotexpectotherstoaccept. 3.changeyourself,otherswillbepossibletochange. 4.onecannotpushanother.Everyonecanonlypushhimself. 5.,findouteachother'svalues,create,enlarge,ortransfer thevalueoftheotherperson'scare,forconvenience,will promotetheirownbehavior. 6.thereforeonecannotteachanotherperson.Onecanonlylead anothertostudy. 7.thereforeonecannotexpectotherpeopletogiveuptheir ownsetofbeliefs,valuesandrulessystem,andtoaccept anotherset. 8.agoodmotiveistheonlyreasonforonepersontodo something,butitdoesnotgivehimtherighttocontrolormake thingshappenashewishes. 9.donotforceotherstofollowitsownsetofbeliefs,values andrules,otherswillnotresist. 10.similarly,wecanonlypushourselves. Three,