大学英语写作范文阅读.docx

大学英语写作范文阅读大学英语写作范文阅读：如何避免争吵HowtoAvoidQuarrelling提纲1.曰常生活中常常会发生争执。2.避免发生争执的办法是善于妥协。Therearetimesinourdailylifewhenyouareoffensiveandexplosiveandhavequarrelswithpeoplearoundyou.Afterwards,youmayfeelupset,regrettingsuchirrationalbehavior.Onceagainignited,youloseyourtemperagain.Canwestopthisharmfulcycling?Inordertocontrolyourtemperandavoidquarrellingyoushouldlearntocompmmlse.Thefirststepistositback,andlakeafewdeepbreaths.Atthistime,youneedtokeepcalmratherthantoventyouranger.Thesecondstepistostartcommunieation.Definewhatyoumeanclearlyandalsolistentotheviewpointofthecounterpart.Thiswillensurethereisnomisunderstandingbetweenanddemonstratethatyouarewillingtocompromise.Ifyoudohavecontraryviews,thethirdstepcomestorealcompromise.Putasidethenotionsthatyouareright,andforceyourselftothinkinhisway.Maybeyourideawillbeimprovedwithhissuggestions.Sometimesyouneedtoagreeondisagreementasacompromise.Ifyouprefertocompromiseratherthanexplode,youarelikelytocomeupwithathirdwayofaccomplishinggoals,whichmaysatisfyboth.大学英语写作范文阅读：树立目标的重要性TheImportanceofGoal-setting提纲1.为什么树立目标很重要。2.许多成功人士都有明确的目标。3.没有目标，生活就没有意义。Whyisgoal-settingimportant?Becausegoalscanhelpyoudoandexperienceeverymeaningfulthingyouhopeforinlife.Insteadoflettinglifehappentoyou,goalsallowyoutomakeyourlifehappen.Successfulpeoplehavevisionsofwhattheirlifeshouldbeandtheysetlotsofgoals,bothsbort-termandlong-range,tohelpthemrealizethevisions.Bysettinggoalsyouaretakingcontrolofyourlife.Itislikehavingamaptoshowwhereyouwanttogo.Adriverwithanaimarrivesatthedestinationwithoutanywasteoftimeorwrongturns.Onthecontrary,adriverwithnoaimdrivesaimlesslyaround,nevergettinganywhereandjustusingupgasandoil.Winnersinlifesetgoalsandfollowthroughonthem.Theydecidewhattheywantandthengettherebymakingplansandsettinggoals.Goalsaranotdifficulttosetandtheyarenotdifficulttoreach.Itisuptoyoutofindoutwhatyourgoals,idealsandvisionsreallyare.Withacleardirection,andwithcertainplans,youwillstraightlygetwhatyouwant.Withoutagoal,youhavetoliveapassivelife.Youdonotknowwhere