To Make Love Grow(让爱升华)考研英语作文.docx

ToMakeLoveGrow(让爱升华)考研英语作文

ToMakeLoveGrowIttookmeyears,though,tolearnthatthelovesurroundingourfamilydidn'tjusthappen.Wehadtolearnaboutlovefromoneanother.Infact,loveneverjusthappen-noteventopeoplewhoseemasnaturallylovingasmymotherandfather.Butthereis,ithink,aclimatethatisbestforlove-awayoflivingthathastensthematurityofthismatchlessgift.First,loveneedstime.Perhpaspeoplecanfallinloveinamoment,butmatureloveislikeatree,movingslowlyfromtheseedtotheshelteringsplendorofitsprime.Peopleneedtimetodeepentheiraffection,toappreciateoneanother'sdifferences,toshareoneanother'sjoysandgriefs...Whenweacceptthedifferencesoflovedones,wefindthatthoseverydifferencesprovidethemysteryandwonderofhumanrelationships.it'sfoolishtoexpectperfection;itdosen'texist.Thekeyistorecognizeandenjoyourdifferences.Togrow,loveneedsanother,moreelusivequality-theabilitytoletgo.Finally,loveneedswordstomakeitreal,Withoutwords,quarrelscan'tberesolved,resentmentcan'tcometothesurface,weclosethepowertosharethemeaningofourlives,therearemanywaystocommunicating.Theimportantthingistoacknowledgeandexpreeourfeelings.Ifwedon't,wedepriveothersoftheknowledgeofourloveandourselvesofthejoythatcomesfromexpressingit.Loveisnotasingleact,butaclimateinwhichwelive,alifetimeventureinwhichwearealwayslearning,discovering,growing.Itisnotdestroyedbyasinglefailure,orwonbyasinglecaress.Loveisaclimate-aclimateoftheheart.让爱升华然而，许多年以后，我才领悟到我们家里这种爱的气氛并不是自然而然产生的。我们必须互相学习去爱。事实上，爱从来就不是自然而然产生的——甚至对于像我父母这样的人们也是这样的。虽然他们看上去天生慈爱。但是我想有一种氛围对于培养爱是再适宜不过的了，即一种可以促进这种无与伦比的天赋发展成熟的生活方式。首先，爱需要时间。人们也许可以一见钟情，但是成熟的爱情就好比是一棵树，从土里的一粒种子渐渐地长成一株生机勃勃枝叶茂密的大树。人们需要时间来加深彼此之间的情谊，发现彼此间的.差异，相互分享欢乐、分担忧愁…当我们接受了与所爱的人之间的差异时，我们发现正是这些差异使得人际关系充满了奥妙与神奇。渴求完美是愚蠢的，因为完美根本就不存在。关键是要能发现我们之间的差异，并进而享受由差异带来的乐趣。