_综合英语(二)下册课文翻译及详解.doc

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LessonOne
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LearningGuide
人生活在群体之中，为了解决自己的衣食住行，处处都要与他人打交道。即使是在英国人称之为“自己的城堡”的家里，人们也必须和睦相处，才能相安无事。风烟四起，舌战连绵，轻者使团体和家庭面和心不和，重者会导致团体瓦解，家庭破裂。处理好人际关系的秘诀是什么？本文作者在多年心理咨询工作中得出结论：以礼待人。他认为，不可小看如何对待他人一事，礼貌不仅仅是个人举止问题，而且也反映一个人的人生观。他还提出了一些化解矛盾和冲突的具体建议，你不妨试试。1①ManyyearsagotryingHYPERLINK"javascript:;"tohelppeoplewitheverykindoftroubleleftmewithonesureHYPERLINK"javascript:;"conviction:inHYPERLINK"javascript:;"caseaftercasethedifficultycouldhavebeenovercome—ormightneverhavearisen—ifthepeopleinvolvedhadjusttreatedoneanotherwithcommoncourtesy.
①Manyyearsagotryingtohelppeoplewitheverykindoftroubleleftmewithonesureconviction...多年以前，帮助人们解决各种各样问题的过程使我深信......Tryingtohelppeoplewitheverykindoftroublecausedmetobelieveonethingfirmly…2①Courtesy,politeness,goodmanners—callitwhatyouwill,thesupplyneverseemstoHYPERLINK"javascript:;"equalthedemand."②It'sHYPERLINK"javascript:;"notsomuchwhatmyhusbandsays,"atearfulwifeconfides,"asthewayhesaysit.Whydoeshehavetoyellatme?Ihatemyboss,"agrim-facedofficeworkermutters."Henevershowsappreciationforanything.""Allwegetfromourteenagers,"aworriedparentsays,"isamoodysullenness."
①Courtesy,politeness,goodmanners－callitwhatyouwill,thesupplyneverseemstoequalthedemand.礼貌也好，客气，或文明举止也好，无论你称它什么，其供应似乎总是小于需求。Whetheryoucallitcourtesy,orpoliteness,orgoodmanner,people'sneedforitalwaysfargreaterthantheyshow.(peoplepracticelesscourtesythantheyshould.)②It'snotsomuchwhatmyhusbandsays,“atearfulwifeconfides,”asthewayhesaysit….一位泪流满面的妻子向我透露说，“（使我伤心的）倒不是我丈夫说的那些话，而是他说话时的态度......Awifeintearstoldme,“Whatmademesosadwasnotwhathesaid,buttherudewayhesaidit…”3SuchcomplaintsHYPERLINK"javascript:;"arenotlimitedtopeoplewhositinmystudy.HumanbeingseverywhereHYPERLINK"javascript:;"hungerforcourtesy.①"Goodmanners,"saidRalphWaldoEmerson,"aretheHYPERLINK"javascript:;"happywayofdoingthings."②AndHYPERLINK"javascript