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受欢迎的秘诀Howtobemorelikeable 大部分的人都想受人欢迎,但是并非每个人都能达到目标。其实,让别人感觉愉悦,对你自己的工作和生活也是大有裨益的哦。那么,广受欢迎、提升自身魅力的秘诀何在呢?且看本文为你支招…… ByJamesBorg 天心选注 Yourlikeabilitydeterminesyoursuccessinbothyourprofessionalandpersonallives.It’sbeenprovedtimeandtimeagainthatitformsthebasisofenduringandbetter-qualityrelationshipsinallspheres.Thatincludesabetterlovelife,betterfriendships,betterjobsandpromotions,andbetterservicefrompeopleyouareforcedtodealwith,suchasdoctors,tradespeopleandwaiters—justabouteveryone. Whenyoumakeotherpeoplefeelgoodandtheygetapositiveexperiencewhenthey’rewithyou,theytendtolikeyou.Toputitplainly—peoplehaveabettertimewhenthey’redealingwithapleasantandengagingperson!Thereareafewsimplethingstomakeyourselfeasytolike. Dresswell Firstimpressionsareformedinstantly,andphysicalappearanceplaysabigpart.Inthemediumtolong-term,peoplebasetheirlikingofapersononothertraitsandwilldiscounttheirphysical“ideal”ifthebodylanguageappeals.Sopayattentiontohowyoulook—whocanfailtolikesomeonetheyfindveryattractive? Smile Whenyousmile,otherpeoplefeelgood.Justsincere.Evenwhenthingsarenotgoingtoowellandyouforceasmile,theempatheticpersonpicksthisupandisabletodelveintoreasonsforyourmixedfeelings. Expressionintheeyes Eyecontactshowsyou’reinterestedinsomeone,bothingeneralsituationsandinromanticones.Theexpressioninyoureyesconveysalotandpeoplecandetectlevelsofwarmth,sympathyandconcern. Areyouagoodlistener? Howyourespondtootherpeopleissometimesmoreimportantthanallthetraitslistedabove.Whenwomentalktootherwomen,theytendtobemoreanimated:theynodatappropriatetimesandmaymakefacialexpressionstoconveyempathy.Mentendtohaveaproblemwithfocus,sothethemeofaconversationgetslostandtheresponsesareoff-key.Inaddition,mendon’ttendtogivesomanyvisualcluestoshowthattheyarelistening.Ifyouareaman,tryrespondingwithyourbodytowhat’sbeingsaid—itwillhelpyoufocus.Ifyoucomeacrossasapersonwholistens,otherpeoplewanttogravitatetowardsyou. Vocabulary likeable可爱的,令人喜爱的,下文的likeability是likeable的名词形式 enduring持久的 sphere(活动、工作、知识等的)范围,领域 promotion提升,