受欢迎的秘诀_(中英文).docx

受欢迎的秘诀Howtobemorelikeable

大部分的人都想受人欢迎，但是并非每个人都能达到目标。其实，让别人感觉愉悦，对你自己的工作和生活也是大有裨益的哦。那么，广受欢迎、提升自身魅力的秘诀何在呢？且看本文为你支招……

ByJamesBorg
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Yourlikeabilitydeterminesyoursuccessinbothyourprofessionalandpersonallives.It’sbeenprovedtimeandtimeagainthatitformsthebasisofenduringandbetter-qualityrelationshipsinallspheres.Thatincludesabetterlovelife,betterfriendships,betterjobsandpromotions,andbetterservicefrompeopleyouareforcedtodealwith,suchasdoctors,tradespeopleandwaiters—justabouteveryone.
Whenyoumakeotherpeoplefeelgoodandtheygetapositiveexperiencewhenthey’rewithyou,theytendtolikeyou.Toputitplainly—peoplehaveabettertimewhenthey’redealingwithapleasantandengagingperson!Thereareafewsimplethingstomakeyourselfeasytolike.
Dresswell
Firstimpressionsareformedinstantly,andphysicalappearanceplaysabigpart.Inthemediumtolong-term,peoplebasetheirlikingofapersononothertraitsandwilldiscounttheirphysical“ideal”ifthebodylanguageappeals.Sopayattentiontohowyoulook—whocanfailtolikesomeonetheyfindveryattractive?
Smile
Whenyousmile,otherpeoplefeelgood.Justsincere.Evenwhenthingsarenotgoingtoowellandyouforceasmile,theempatheticpersonpicksthisupandisabletodelveintoreasonsforyourmixedfeelings.
Expressionintheeyes
Eyecontactshowsyou’reinterestedinsomeone,bothingeneralsituationsandinromanticones.Theexpressioninyoureyesconveysalotandpeoplecandetectlevelsofwarmth,sympathyandconcern.
Areyouagoodlistener?
Howyourespondtootherpeopleissometimesmoreimportantthanallthetraitslistedabove.Whenwomentalktootherwomen,theytendtobemoreanimated:theynodatappropriatetimesandmaymakefacialexpressionstoconveyempathy.Mentendtohaveaproblemwithfocus,sothethemeofaconversationgetslostandtheresponsesareoff-key.Inaddition,mendon’ttendtogivesomanyvisualcluestoshowthattheyarelistening.Ifyouareaman,tryrespondingwithyourbodytowhat’sbeingsaid—itwillhelpyoufocus.Ifyoucomeacrossasapersonwholistens,otherpeoplewanttogravitatetowardsyou.
Vocabulary
likeable可爱的，令人喜爱的，下文的likeability是likeable的名词形式
enduring持久的
sphere（活动、工作、知识等的）范围，领域
promotion提升，