高中英语阅读提升READING & PRACTICING专题辅导.doc

高中英语阅读提升READING&PRACTICING阅读理解A文章难度：★★词数315建议做题用时：7分钟Ifyourchilddeliberatelyignoresyou,pretendsnottohearyourrequests,andrefusestogreetyouorothers,readontoseehowyoucandealwiththeirbehaviorwithoutlosingyourcool.Kidspurposelyignoreyoubecauseitgivesthemasenseofpowerandcontrol.Itmakesthemfeelbig,andpretendingnottohearyoumakesthemfeellikethey’reflexingtheirmuscles.WhatIrecommendisthatyoufigureoutwhat’simportanttoyouasaparentandwhat’simportanttoyourchild.Whenyourchildisnottalkingtoyou,isfrustratedwithyouandisnotrespondingtheidea,askyourself,ashardasitmayseem,“Whatdoesmychildneedfrommerightnow?”Ithinkwhattheyneedisforlimits,expectationsandconsequencestobespelledoutmoreclearlyforthematsomecalmertimesothattheyclearlyunderstandwhatthey’rerisking.Ibelievewhattheydon’tneedisalectureorconfrontation,becausethatgivesthesituationmorepowerandultimately,itjustfeedsthefire.Ipersonallythinkwhatyourchildmayneedfromyouistobeleftalone.Remember,avoidpowerstrugglesandmakesureyouwintheonesyoupick.Andonlypicktheonesthataregoingtobedevelopmentallyimportantforyourchildoryourfamily,orthathavetodowithsafety,healthandwelfare.It’salsoimportanttounderstandthataschildrengetolder,partoftheirlifetaskistomakemoreandmorechoicesanddecisionsontheirown.Soyou’lloftenseeteensandpre-teensdemonstratingdispleasureinmoreobservableways,andbecomingincreasinglyrebellious.Andmuchofthisbehavior,althoughitmaybedisturbing,isusuallyharmlessandvictimless.BythatImeannoonereallygetshurt;mostoftenitissimplysocialrulesandpoliteinteractionsthatarebeingviolated.1.Theauthorofthispassageistryingtogiveadviceon.A.childcareB.bringingupchildrenC.publicrelationD.parent-childrelation2.Theauthorbelievesthatgivingyourchildalecturewill.A.makehimawareofyourrealmeaningB.correctyourchild’swrongbehaviorsC.improveyourcommunicationwithyourchildD.makethingsevenworse3.WhichofthefollowingisNOTtrue?A.Kidssometimesrefusetolistentotheirparentsonpurpose.B.Parentsshouldnotgivetheirkidsanylimitations.C.Kidsmaynotknowwhatconsequencestheywillface.D.